Most people hear the word Shibari and think they already know what it is. They picture something they've seen in a film or a photo — rope, restriction, performance. And they move on, having filed it away in a category that doesn't feel relevant to their life. But what if that picture was incomplete? What if Shibari was something far more personal, far more interior, and far more transformative than anything a photograph can capture? This is a guide for the woman who is curiou