Before You Arrive You may feel nervous. This is completely normal. Even women who are deeply curious about Shibari often arrive with a mix of excitement and apprehension. Questions like Will I know what to do? Will I feel exposed? What if I don't like it? are universal. Here's what helps: Shibari is not a performance you need to prepare for. There is no way to do it wrong. Your only job is to show up as you are and let yourself be guided. What to Wear Choose comfortable cloth